Do we do what we read and write?

**This post is adult related**

Friday Pepper Anthony wrote a post HERE that has been in my head since. She touched base on things in romance books that are often over looked, such as that morning kiss. The hero/heroines love getting down and dirty in the mornings with tons of kissing. And Pepper pointed out MORNING BREATH! Thanks Pepper, I may never read a romance the same. :)

So, then I got to thinking about the types of romances that we read or write. Is that an insight into our lives? Some erotica's can get pretty down and dirty with whips and chains and spanking- oh my! Does that mean after I finish one of Ella Jade's lastest BDSM's that I have made my hubby become my master? Um, no? Have I found a genre to read that I never knew I'd like? Yes. Its fantasy. Especially because I have no idea how someone can hold off on the big "O" and only do that when they're told too.

Which also brings me to another point. Many of my friends after reading Amber's Muse, thought I had written about things my husband and I had been doing. First off, this wasn't a memoir and second, he would kill me. There was a scene in Amber's Muse that took place at a couch. I got tons of message on facebook "That couch scene was hot! You've done that, huh?" Yes, that couch scene was hot, but purely made up in my imagination.

So, to answer my own question based on me. Do we do what we read and write? My guess is going to be no. I think we read our fantasies and maybe take ideas from it. As a writer, I don't often plan those intimate scenes, I go with what feels right at the moment for the hero/heroine. Reading and writing is a way for us to learn some of our desires.

Thanks for stopping by. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

See ya next Monday
Lacey