Your kiss is on my ...

There are so many more interesting places to kiss a person than on the mouth. Oh, don't get me wrong, sometimes there's nothing better than going full bore, so to speak, but when you slow it down, gradually work your way to the lips, the whole mood shifts.

Try to imagine a patient seduction, seeing just what you can get away with in public while still making your meaning clear to your lover. Think how something as simple as holding hands can be turned into so much more with a lingering kiss on the wrist, inside the palm, across the knuckles as you make unbroken eye contact. Sometimes the lightest brushes leave the deepest tremors.

Moving in slow, allowing anticipation to build, means that the skin and fine hairs on the body rise as well, and sensation intensifies. Consider lingering over the ear, using your warm breath and intimate suggestions to elicit a tremble even before the first delicate kiss makes contact.

There's nothing quite like the adrenaline rush of lust; the impatient grappling, the frantic groping, the desperate need to consume and be consumed. Heady stuff. Just don't forget to slow it down sometimes, enjoy the journey and explore each other. Notice the different textures of your lover's skin and hair. Watch and enjoy how they respond when you touch them here, kiss them there. This is the time to tease, toy, tickle, and taste. Tonight, you're not running a sprint, you're running a marathon. Pace yourself. You'll be glad you did.